Mr. and Mrs. Coleman have been together for nearly seven years and have four children. However, their relationship has been marred by addiction. Mr. Coleman has been clean for two years, and Mrs. Coleman has been clean for ten months. Their journey towards sobriety has been a challenging one, filled with trials and tribulations. The couple’s past struggles with addiction have left a significant impact on their relationship and family life.
The main issue in the episode revolves around the paternity of their unborn child. Mr. Coleman had doubts about being the father due to Mrs. Coleman’s past infidelity and contracting an STD, which she claims was not treated properly the first time. This situation has caused a strain in their relationship, threatening their marriage and their recovery from addiction.
Mr. Coleman expresses his doubts, saying, “Yes and no, you know what I’m saying? Because I really… That’s a touchy subject right there, you know what I’m saying? But, yeah, Your Honor, because this is like a… On April the 16th, I took a home pass to go be with my mother and my father. Just to transition back into some people’s lives who are important to me.” His words reflect the complexity of the situation and the emotional turmoil he is experiencing.
The situation is further complicated when Mrs. Coleman becomes pregnant. Mr. Coleman expresses his doubts about the paternity of the child, which leads to tension in their relationship. Mrs. Coleman is initially unaware of these doubts and is offended when Mr. Coleman suggests appearing before the court for a paternity test. This revelation adds another layer of complexity to their already strained relationship.
The couple’s emotional situation and the potential impact on their recovery from addiction is discussed with Dr. Drew Pinsky, a renowned addiction specialist. Dr. Drew advises that the truth about the paternity of the child could help them move forward. He emphasizes the importance of honesty and the need for the couple to prioritize their recovery.
Dr. Drew states, “Yes, of course, ideally, we’d love them to be in the… In the couple’s therapy, but that’s costly. But there’s 12 step programs that are free. Get your sponsor, capitulate. In Mrs. Coleman’s case, it will be a woman. She should have at least five to ten years of sobriety herself. Mr. Coleman, I’m sure you already have a sponsor. Listen to what they say, and follow their direction. It is free. Your sobriety, your life depends upon your sobriety. Treat this disease accordingly.” His words underscore the gravity of the situation and the importance of maintaining sobriety for the sake of their family.
In the end, a prenatal DNA test is performed, and it is determined that Mr. Coleman is the father of the unborn child. The couple expresses relief and a commitment to move forward, focusing on their recovery and their family. The revelation brings a sense of closure to the couple and offers them a chance to rebuild their relationship.
Dr. Drew advises them to continue with their treatment and to take care of themselves for the sake of their children. He emphasizes the importance of maintaining sobriety and prioritizing their recovery. His advice serves as a reminder of the ongoing nature of their struggle and the need for continued commitment to their recovery.
